Last night I started writing this post in the notes app on my iPhone, while laying awkwardly on my side in bed. It was almost midnight and I should’ve been sleeping because I was getting up early today to work out. But, instead I had been furiously typing away on my phone, attempting to capture […]
Sometimes I feel more like a detective than a coach. A master of curiosity. When I partner with a client, we work together looking for clues. Every clue provides us with more information, which then moves us closer to the next clue. I’m not the expert on their lives. They are. And yet, most of […]
Designing your life, intentionally, is more than possible. And yet, most people don’t do it. Who designed your life (career, lifestyle, social circle, where you live…)? Was it you? Or did you sort of stumble into it? So many of us charge forward, living by default. We do what our parents counsel us to do, […]
The dreaded question. Deer in headlights was about all I could muster in response throughout school and well into my twenties. How was one supposed to know? I liked a lot of things. Too many things. In fact, the endless possibilities and “you can be whatever you want to be” urgings of my generation’s supporters […]
When my husband and I started planning our wedding, we decided we wanted to do things a little differently. Everything about it was intended to be a reflection of who we are. We’re big on authenticity and adventure in our daily lives, and saw no reason for our wedding to be any different. This is […]
I love working with rebels. Interestingly enough, most of my rebel clients had NO idea they were one when we started down their path. They don’t identify with that part of themselves. Yet. They’re still in hiding. That’s why I sometimes refer to them as undercover rebels. I was one too. Big time. I had […]
Over the weekend I got some terrible news. A bright, shining light in my community – one of my favorite colleagues – had passed away. Today is the day of the week when I publish a blog post, and I can’t imagine writing about anything other than him. Here is my story about Scott and […]